Pamela J. Steffen

Pamela J. Steffen, a beloved mother, proud daughter, loving sister, devoted friend and cherished member of the community, passed away on Nov. 25, 2025. 

She is survived by her dear children Tyler and Chandler Steffen, who will carry forward her radiant spirit and unwavering love.

With an insatiable zest for life, Pam loved to travel with her twin sister Kim, spending time at the beach, exploring new places and creating memories with friends, whether it was a spontaneous car ride or a leisurely outing in a golf cart. She was known for her infectious smile that could light up any room and her talent in the kitchen, where she cooked meals filled with love. Pam had a sweet tooth for ice cream, relishing those simple pleasures in life with the same enthusiasm she applied to everything she did.

In her earlier years, Pam was an active member of her community, participating in a bowling team and enjoying volleyball and aerobics classes. She left an indelible mark as a volunteer, supporting local fundraisers with her boundless energy and dedication, helping to uplift those around her.

In addition to her children Tyler and Chandler Steffen, Pam is survived by her mother Jean Michel, sister Kim (Jim) Kilroy and bonus brother John Russell. She is further survived by many other relatives and friends.  

Pam was preceded in death by her father Edwin Michel.

As we celebrate the remarkable life of Pamela J. Steffen, we invite family and friends to gather for a memorial service to honor her legacy and the joy she brought to so many on Thursday, Dec. 18, 2025, at the Rose-Harms American Legion Post in Grafton at 7 p.m. The family will receive friends and relatives on Thursday at the Rose-Harms American Legion Post from 4 p.m. until the service. In this time of remembrance, we encourage all who knew Pam to share stories and reflections, ensuring her incredible spirit lives on in our hearts.  

In lieu of flowers, memorials to the family are appreciated.  

Though Pam has left us physically, her warmth, kindness and love will forever grace our lives. We will remember her not with sadness but with joyful celebration as we cherish the moments and memories that she gifted us all.

Please visit www.plopperfh.com to send online condolences to the Steffen family or to possibly contribute to medical and funeral expenses.